Homeschool as a Method to Increase Positive Social Skills
by Lyn Lomasi
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For so many years, choosing to educate children from home was looked at as stripping away their social interaction. However, many homeschooling families will argue with that fact, and for good reason.In a homeschool setting, there is a smaller number of children to watch over, making it much easier to turn the negative into positive.

Some people might assume that because children homeschool, they will not have any friends. This is simply not true. Friends can be made from your neighborhood, an extra class, at the park, at the museum, within your own extended family, and various other avenues. A public school is not the only place one can acquire a friend.

Homeschooled children are allowed to call and play with their friends, just as a public schooled child would. It is no different. There are birthday parties, slumber parties, shopping trips, and more - all the activities public school friends do as well.

Also, in many homeschooling families, extra steps are taken to be sure that socialization is included, which means there is researching to be done on the parent's part for the methods and sometimes extra classes that will provide this.

This research often leads to finding solutions that focus on positive interaction with others because any good method will focus on the positive, rather than the negative. Socializing is also given special attention, thus making socialization greatly important to a homeschooling family.

This special attention often isn't given in public school because it is sometimes assumed that since the children are with other children all day, they are socializing well. However, this assumption shouldn't always be made. All socialization isn't positive. It can be negative as well. This is a fact looked over by many.

While some teachers do provide some great character development and social instruction in public school, which they are to be commended for, the children are often greatly influenced by each other. This comes naturally, as they desire to fit in. Also, it is simply just fun for them to relate with each other, which is certainly okay when that relating isn't negative.

During recess, the children are within sight of the teachers, but not always within earshot or in immediate reach, which can lead to some of them using inappropriate language or behaviors. The others either tell them they don't like those words or actions or they repeat them.

Now all the children that were in that general area have heard that language or seen that behavior and some will want to use it, and they will, which, in turn, spreads this negative action to even more kids, cycling and creating a viral pattern. Pretty soon it will get to most of the children who are in the same age range.

Another reason that viral cycle happens is that once a certain number of kids are doing something, others begin to view it as okay. It becomes more accepted because they are used to seeing it and it doesn't even cross some of their minds that it might be wrong.

Perhaps if children were taught from the beginning how to interact positively, rather than negatively, some of these problems wouldn't exist later in life, which brings me back to homeschooling.

The main difference with homeschool socialization and public school socialization is the fact that in homeschool, much more effort is put into developing social skills, because of the fact that children may not be with other children all day (unless they have siblings). The fact that parents know other children aren't present and the effort put in to make up for that often makes for a child who can interact with most people in a positive way.

One more reason that positive social interaction is taught in a home school setting is because homeschooled children will be exposed to people of all ages throughout the day, which makes for a much more diverse learning experience.

Another thing to remember about homeschooling is that when there is more than one child in the family, working together is often a huge part of the schooling process, even in siblings that range in age. Some homeschooling families even teach from a mixed-age perspective, leading to a great deal of cooperation with each other. Group cooperation is an important skill needed throughout life. Many colleges actively seek out home schooled children because of their exceptional social and educational abilities.

In closing, I will say that not all public school interaction is negative and not all homeschool interaction is positive. Ultimately, it is up to the parent to examine what situations are best for each individual child. Many children make it through public school fine as do many in homeschool.

People should come to realize that socialization isn't about whether you choose school at home or utilize public school or other options, but about whether a positive environment is created for the child. If the social environment your child is in right now is not a positive one, it is time to consider other options.

Those options may or may not be completely switching the child's schooling style. It could be just doing it in a different way or finding creative ways to incorporate positive socialization.

Whatever method you choose, be sure it is one both you and your child will feel comfortable with.


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~~ Originally published at Associated Content by Lyn Lomasi ~~
 
 
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If you're thinking about or have decided to homeschool, you likely are wondering about homeschool laws. What are the legalities and where can information be found? Each state in the US has a different set of rules. The following information should help guide you toward the most current information.

One place to learn about homeschool laws is through your state's education department. When people think of the Department of Education, they may not necessarily be thinking about homeschool. But this agency should have access to the most current information regarding homeschool.

The Homeschool Legal Defense Association (HSLDA) also can be extremely helpful when it comes to learning about homeschool laws. They even have a state by state breakdown of the legal options. In addition, they also can be very supportive to homeschool families who have been legally wronged.

Other Helpful Resources:

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*For more homeschool information and resources, visit Our Homeschool Page.

~ Authored by Lyn Lomasi

 
 
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by Jaipi Sixbear

I was very excited when contacted about the Tickle Me Plant for kids. I enjoy telling my readers about strange and unusual plants and gardening techniques. The Tickle Me Plant, simply put, is a plant that responds when tickled.Kids love this plant grown from seed sold by the Tickle Me Plant company.

The seeds can be ordered here. The detailed website tells you everything you need to know about the Tickle Me Plant. Get kids interested in gardening effortlessly with the Tickle Me Plant.

The Tickle Me Plant is well promoted by co-owner Mark Chipman. Mark is a former middle school science teacher. He knows the importance of instilling knowledge through experience and hopes to educate kids through the Tickle Me Plant.

The Tickle Me Plant, also known as Mimosa pudica or sensitive plant, is easy to grow. Kids just soak seeds overnight prior to planting. Plant 2-3 seeds ¼ inch deep in a small flower pot. If you don't have a pot, a cup with a hole in the bottom for drainage will do. Place the pot in a sunny window.

The Tickle Me Plant should emerge in about a week. The first leaves are not touch sensitive. The second set of leaves will react when tickled by moving. Kids get really excited and quickly learn that plants are indeed alive.

The Tickle Me Plant seeds come with science activities for kids. The seeds cost around 5.00 a pack. Also available from the Tickle Me Plant company are mini greenhouses, growing kits and party kits for the Tickle Me Plant.

The Tickle Me Plant for kids is both fun and educational. Gardening activities like the Tickle Me Plant teach valuable life lessons and experience for kids. Best of all, kids won't even know they are learning something. The Tickle Me Plant is good clean gardening fun for kids of all ages.

*The author has not received any gifts, monies, or other monetary awards from the maker/s of this product.

 
 
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by Lyn Lomasi

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~ The author is always open to questions and discussion. Please feel free to express your thoughts and concerns.

*This is not a complete guide on homeschooling, nor is it meant as legal advice. Always check with your state's education agency for up to date laws and do the proper research for questions and concerns.

Sources:

http://www.hslda.org/docs/news/200908100.asp