Choosing whether a dance class is appropriate for your child involves much thinking. While this can be a fun and rewarding experience, there are other aspects of involving your child in extra-curricular activities that should be considered. Many questions are likely running through your mind. This guide should serve as a help to answer some of those questions. How many days/hours will your child need to commit to a dance class? Dance classes will meet regularly and before committing your child to them, you should know the schedule. Some will meet for 30 minutes at a time, while others may meet for longer periods, even hours at a time. Some may be more days per week than your child or family can handle. This information should be thoroughly considered before signing your child up for dance classes. Click here to continue reading>>> If you see this post 8/28/2010, please consider sponsoring today's posts on this blog for your own determined amount. Flat donations and sponsorships will go to HopeForHealing.org. If you'd like to sponsor or donate, please contact Lyn Lomasi. Kids Get the Freedom to Learn and You Get the Control You Need Teaching kids how to handle money properly can be confusing and stressful for parents. On the one hand, parents know that their children need experience with spending, saving, and banking in order to navigate the world when they are out on their own. On the other hand, parents know that it is far too easy for kids and young adults to get in over their heads financially and to rack up huge debts that are hard to get out of. The question, therefore, is how to let kids dip their toes into financial waters without the associated risk. Click here to continue reading>>> Tips for Buying Kids Clothes when Going Back to School Shopping Back to school fashions vary by age and gender, and parents blessed with a uniform-friendly school breathe a sigh of relief. All others must carefully pick their paths past see thru clothes and back to school duds that have all the makings of a fashion disaster. Learn what to avoid. Click here to continue reading this article>> Affordable, Eco-Conscious Styles that Are Earth Friendly, Sustainable and Keep on Giving Eco-friendly book bags are available for the green college student getting ready to begin their higher education or those who are heading back for another semester. The eco-conscious college student will want to look for products that are organic, recycled, earth-friendly, sustainable, and also affordable. Green college students will want to check out the top 5 eco-friendly books bags available for under $50. Continue reading this article>>> ![]() Does Sex Education Prevent or Promote Sexual Activity? Your 10 year old child comes home with a condom package and a bunch of other assorted sexual paraphernalia. Where did he get it? From his teacher. Does this send the wrong message or is this just a necessary part of learning? Are schools teaching sex education in the wrong way? Click here to continue reading this article Shopping for back to school clothes can be a bonding experience between parents and their children, but it can also be a battle as you keep a keen eye on the clothes they want to wear, versus what you want for them. How can you say "no" to inappropriate back to school clothes? Click here to continue reading this article Uniforms for Homeschool? Yes or No? 07/23/2010
by Lyn Lomasi ![]() As a parent who home schools her children I get asked a variety of questions all the time. In fact, I get so many that I often write about them in case others wonder the same things that are asked of me. One question I've been asked quite a few times is whether or not home schooled kids should wear uniforms. Based on my thoughts and experiences, here is my analysis of this homeschool topic. Avoiding Questions About Homeschool Before you laugh (I almost did the first time I got this question), I actually can see some situations in which a person might feel this would be a good idea. For instance, if a kid in homeschool is on a field trip, a uniform may help avoid questions. Depending on the family, this may be a viable option. I personally don't mind getting asked questions because it gives me a chance to inform others. Questions regarding choice of school methods and how they work can make for some interesting conversations. It also can help quell some of the myths associated with this schooling method. Safety in Public Places If field trips take places in crowded areas, uniforms might make it easier to keep track of everyone. I could see them being used on homeschooled kids in situations like this for safety purposes. However, this doesn't necessarily mean the kids need to wear traditional school uniforms. Dressing everyone in your group in a neon green outfit could do the trick. That's assuming they'd all want to wear it. That's the beauty of homeschool. Each family can decide together what is suitable and safe for everyone. Comfort for the Students One of the many benefits of homeschooling is allowing the kids to be comfortable. Enforcing a dress code may do the opposite of that. When not on a field trip where the environment is crowded, kids should be allowed to just be kids. The way people dress is part of individuality and some may not feel comfortable in a uniform. If your kids do, then I say go for it, if it makes them happy. But if a homeschooled child is sitting at a desk, computer, or maybe even at the library or park, there may not necessarily be any reason to wear a uniform. A comfortable kid is a happy kid and a happy kid is probably more likely to concentrate on school work than one who is uncomfortable. Yoga for Concentration in Homeschool 06/26/2010
![]() Author: Lyn Lomasi Yoga has long been known for calming and rejuvenating effects. But, did you know that many researchers and scientists agree about the benefits of yoga on memory, concentration, and focus. Because of this, my kids and I start the homeschool day with yoga. I feel that memory, focus, and concentration poses help to prepare the kids minds for lessons and learning. There are numerous scientific studies that sate these benefits of yoga to the mind, including on Alzheimer's patients. According to Wired Science, yoga can increase GABA levels in the brain. These increased GABA levels can help counteract anxiety and other neuropathy conditions. TheABC-Of-Yoga.com goes into further detail about yoga and the nervous system. >>Continue Reading this Article> Teaching kids to read can be rewarding, but it also can be frustrating for some. Daily activities that blend in with the normal routine can be beneficial. This technique is especially helpful to reluctant learners. However, it can be used when teaching most kids how to read. As a former nanny and a current home school teacher and parent, I have taught plenty of kids how to read by using simple daily techniques... >>Click Here to Continue Reading This Article>>> Homeschool as a Method to Increase Positive Social Skills by Lyn Lomasi ![]() For so many years, choosing to educate children from home was looked at as stripping away their social interaction. However, many homeschooling families will argue with that fact, and for good reason.In a homeschool setting, there is a smaller number of children to watch over, making it much easier to turn the negative into positive. Some people might assume that because children homeschool, they will not have any friends. This is simply not true. Friends can be made from your neighborhood, an extra class, at the park, at the museum, within your own extended family, and various other avenues. A public school is not the only place one can acquire a friend. Homeschooled children are allowed to call and play with their friends, just as a public schooled child would. It is no different. There are birthday parties, slumber parties, shopping trips, and more - all the activities public school friends do as well. Also, in many homeschooling families, extra steps are taken to be sure that socialization is included, which means there is researching to be done on the parent's part for the methods and sometimes extra classes that will provide this. This research often leads to finding solutions that focus on positive interaction with others because any good method will focus on the positive, rather than the negative. Socializing is also given special attention, thus making socialization greatly important to a homeschooling family. This special attention often isn't given in public school because it is sometimes assumed that since the children are with other children all day, they are socializing well. However, this assumption shouldn't always be made. All socialization isn't positive. It can be negative as well. This is a fact looked over by many. While some teachers do provide some great character development and social instruction in public school, which they are to be commended for, the children are often greatly influenced by each other. This comes naturally, as they desire to fit in. Also, it is simply just fun for them to relate with each other, which is certainly okay when that relating isn't negative. During recess, the children are within sight of the teachers, but not always within earshot or in immediate reach, which can lead to some of them using inappropriate language or behaviors. The others either tell them they don't like those words or actions or they repeat them. Now all the children that were in that general area have heard that language or seen that behavior and some will want to use it, and they will, which, in turn, spreads this negative action to even more kids, cycling and creating a viral pattern. Pretty soon it will get to most of the children who are in the same age range. Another reason that viral cycle happens is that once a certain number of kids are doing something, others begin to view it as okay. It becomes more accepted because they are used to seeing it and it doesn't even cross some of their minds that it might be wrong. Perhaps if children were taught from the beginning how to interact positively, rather than negatively, some of these problems wouldn't exist later in life, which brings me back to homeschooling. The main difference with homeschool socialization and public school socialization is the fact that in homeschool, much more effort is put into developing social skills, because of the fact that children may not be with other children all day (unless they have siblings). The fact that parents know other children aren't present and the effort put in to make up for that often makes for a child who can interact with most people in a positive way. One more reason that positive social interaction is taught in a home school setting is because homeschooled children will be exposed to people of all ages throughout the day, which makes for a much more diverse learning experience. Another thing to remember about homeschooling is that when there is more than one child in the family, working together is often a huge part of the schooling process, even in siblings that range in age. Some homeschooling families even teach from a mixed-age perspective, leading to a great deal of cooperation with each other. Group cooperation is an important skill needed throughout life. Many colleges actively seek out home schooled children because of their exceptional social and educational abilities. In closing, I will say that not all public school interaction is negative and not all homeschool interaction is positive. Ultimately, it is up to the parent to examine what situations are best for each individual child. Many children make it through public school fine as do many in homeschool. People should come to realize that socialization isn't about whether you choose school at home or utilize public school or other options, but about whether a positive environment is created for the child. If the social environment your child is in right now is not a positive one, it is time to consider other options. Those options may or may not be completely switching the child's schooling style. It could be just doing it in a different way or finding creative ways to incorporate positive socialization. Whatever method you choose, be sure it is one both you and your child will feel comfortable with. |